So it was my birthday a couple of days ago. I had a blast and obviously a moment of self reflection. I decided to make a list of the things I think are important that I have learnt so far.
- Pursue a passion.
- Accept criticism.
- Cut people some slack; especially cashiers and shop help. Don't be the jerk that ruins someone's day or its already ruined so don't make it worse.
- Buy good jeans. They last longer because of cost per wear.
- Cook your own meals! its cheaper.
- Pay debts bit by bit. Student loans or even loans from friends. A bad debtor = a bad friend!
- Don't force on yourself things you don't like. Chances are you won't like them the next day either. Music, people, clothes and especially boys!
- Buy the right size of clothes and shoes always! Not whats there or the size you want to be!
- For others - do what you can! You cant save everybody!
- Stop being judgmental, critical or talking about others. You don't know nothing about them. You don't know their struggle.
- Don't rush to tell your story wait until your friend is done. Wait until laughter has died down from your friend's joke before you start your own funny story. (Found in the book " The happiness project")
- Don't follow your friends all the time. Learn to say "NO" and go your own way sometimes. You cant please everyone all the time.
- Feel good NOW!
- Don't be anxious about the future. Don't worry you will figure it out.
- Exercise! Get a good night's sleep.
- Its ok to prefer your own company sometimes. Everybody needs some alone time once in a while.
- Read before you sign anything! Online or in person. Read the fine print always!
- Accept your situation and work with it. Bloom where you are planted!
- People are a great source of information. The internet might have loads of info too but nothing beats face to face.
- Keep in touch - with friends and family.
- Be nice to others - Know that sometimes you have to do what others want even if you don't want to just to keep the peace (as long as it not dangerous!)
- Sometimes it's good to keep your mouth shut. Silence is good! Sleep on it... it might look different tomorrow. Some say, "Count to 10 before you reply and to 100 if you are really mad."
- Dance it out! Find your own "Happy song". Play it in the crazy times or in the morning to get you ready to face the day.
My morning song these days ...